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Essays on Life in Thailand



For the past few years I have written a monthly column for Chiang Mai City Life Magazine called A Retiring Attitude.  The column gives tips on living in Thailand, its culture, ups and downs, language, social dos and don’ts and lots of other stuff one learns from living here for the past 40 years, off and on.

Below are links to these columns.  They will be added to each month.


 

Never Say No [Vol.17 No.10 Oct 2008]

The only way you can safely say 'No' in Thailand is to say 'Yes'. But with a little practice you will be able to always say 'Yes' and still evade doing what you said you would do. You have probably...

Insurance in Thailand [Vol.17 No.9 Sep 2008]

I get a lot of questions about insurance in Thailand. We typically think of life and health and maybe auto insurance. But that's just scratching the surface. There's property, house, condo, accident,...

Too Busy to Keep working   [Vol.17 No.8 Aug 2008]

I come across lots of articles written for those of us who are retired or getting ready to retire. Most of them warn that once we quit work we will have to find something to do with the rest of our...

Uninvited Houseguest [Vol.17 No.7 Jul 2008]

If you have gotten to the point of setting up house here in Thailand then you have probably already experienced some uninvited houseguests. No, we are not talking about your cousin Bubba dropping...


Enter With Caution [Vol.17 No.6 Jun 2008]

I was at a gathering the other day where a number of expat women were talking about how their marriages had become stressed and then disintegrated once they came to Thailand....


Tarzan English [Vol.17 No.5 May 2008]

Something mysterious happens to the English language of many farang when they disembark their airplanes and step onto Thai soil. Their grammar disappears. Articles like 'a'...

Live Under Your Means [Vol.17 No.4 Apr 2008]

At the tender age of 55 I had a good job in the computer industry; then my company decided to outsource my job to India.  And am I happy they did.

Annual Checkup [Vol.17 No.3 Mar 2008]

My wife and I hadn’t done anything together for a long time so I thought that we could go out and do something as a couple for once.  Like a good wife, married to the same man for a third of a century, she said “Let’s go and get our annual physical checkup.”

 
Power Napping [Vol.17 No.2 Feb 2008]

Thailand, especially on a stifling hot season afternoon, can be a rather enervating place. There is a Thai word 'chee-wit-chee-wa' meaning animated and lively. Well, a hot Thai...

Golf in Thailand [Vol.17 No.1 Jan 2008]

Golf is a good walk spoiled - Mark Twain I would guess that any column on retirement would eventually have something to say about golf. I have played lots of sports and been active all my...

It's a Dog's Life [Vol.16 No.12 Dec 2007]

I was just reading one of those expat blogs and the topic of the day was how to protect yourself from those barking, growling, snapping 'soi dogs'. The advice given ranged from carrying a big stick...


Unintended Consequences [Vol.16 No.11 Nov 2007]

In the film Pay it Forward, the plot of the story has the protagonist doing random good deeds for someone with the only stipulation that they do a random good deed for someone else, thus paying the...

How Do You Spell That? [Vol.16 No.10 Oct 2007]

I am sorry to be the one to tell you, but many of those Thai words and place names you have read on maps and signs and guide books, well, you're saying them wrong. But it's not your fault. The spelling...

Visiting a Thai Temple [Vol.16 No.9 Sep 2007]

There probably has never been a foreign visitor to Thailand who hasn't visited a temple. It's like visiting Italy and not going to a cathedral. But for many sightseers the Thai temple, or wat, is...


Relationships[Vol.16 No.8 Aug 2007]

Many people come to Thailand hoping to form relationships and find a life partner. There are ads in newspapers, magazines and on the internet offering to help put prospective partners together...

Can I Borrow a Word? [Vol.16 No.7 Jul 2007]

Sometimes I just don't know the Thai word for something. I had some car trouble the other day when I left my headlights on while I went to visit a friend. When I came back the battery was dead and...

Who Pays the Bill [Vol.16 No.6 Jun 2007]

A Thai friend of mine came to me with a problem a while ago. He had a farang house guest and because of it he was going broke. He was just on his way to the pawn shop to hock his new cell phone...

What's in a Name? [Vol.16 No.5 May 2007]

As a newcomer to living in Thailand you will meet lots of people everyday. Of all the people whom you meet I wonder how many of their real names you will ever know. The other day I got an interesting...

Building Your Dream House[Vol.16 No.4 Apr 2007]

In an earlier column I said that for me I thought it best to rent a house or condo. I still feel that way but very frequently I encounter the Farang who must build his "dream house". Too often this...


Internal Heat and a Broken Stomach[Vol.16 No.3 Mar 2007]

Buddhism teaches us that if we are going to be born then we must also accept that we will grow old, get sick and eventually die. If you are retiring here...

Counting Your Blessings [Vol.16 No.2 Feb 2007]

Thailand uses the metric system as does most of the logical world. But the Thais have their own system of weights and measurements that may confuse the newcomer. One example of a Thai-specific unit...

Four Stages of Living in Thailand [Vol.16 No.1 Jan 2007]

What stage of living in Thailand are you in? Jean Piaget, the Swiss psychologist, told us that we all live through four stages of development when we are growing up. We go through infancy, pre-school,...

Staying Alive [Vol.15 No.12 Dec 2006]

I have found that staying young has much more to do with your mind than with your body. The body, as Buddhist philosophy, and the laws of physics, tells us is impermanent, constantly undergoing change,...


Meidcal Care [Vol.15 No.11 Nov 2006]

One way you know that you’ve left your youth behind and reached retirement age is when every time you get up from a chair you make strange grunting noises.  And your thoughts more often than you would like center on your health, or lack of it.

 
Why Learn Thai? [Vol.15 No.10 Oct 2006]

There is an idiom that the Thais use to describe how their culture is seen by the outside world, 'Pak Chee Loy Naa', or literally, 'Corriander leaves floating on top'. The pretty decorative green...


Driving in Thailand [Vol.15 No.9 Sep 2006]

Motorcycles to the left of me, pickups to the right. Into the Valley of Death I ride. That's how most foreigners feel when they first experience Thailand traffic. At first glance it would appear...

Getting Around [Vol.15 No.8 Aug 2006]

The Walking Man is a 77 year old German friend of mine who has lived in Thailand for the past 15 years.  Every morning he walks up to 10 kilometers, much less than he did when he was younger.  Then he sometimes…

Condo Hunting [Vol.15 No.7 Jul 2006]

If you are looking for a place to live in Thailand try this exercise. Open the Bangkok paper to the real estate section. Take a look at one of the large ads and see what condos and...


Getting Access to Your Money [Vol.15 No.6 Jun 2006]

Once we retire overseas we instantly enter the international banking scene. Most retirees will have either a foreign source of income, usually in the form of a government or private retirement plan,...


Looking for a Place to Live [Vol.15 No.5 May 2006]

When you have finally decided to give retirement in Thailand a shot it is time to leave those hotel rooms, guest houses, and friend's floors behind and look for a more permanent residence. You'll find...

Is Thailand right For You? [Vol.15 No.4 Apr 2006]  

If you have determined that the time is right to retire, your finances are in place and you are considering Thailand, you need to answer the question of whether Thailand is right for you. Why not try...


Could That Place Be Thailand? [Vol.15 No.3 Mar 2006]

There is a popular saying about my hometown of New York City, "It's a great place to visit but I wouldn't want to live there." With one exception something similar could be said of Thailand, "It's a...

 



 
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